Today on the Dads with Daughters Podcast I spoke with Jay Armstrong, a father of three who is fighting a rare, degenerative brain disease while working to be the best dad he can be. We talk about fatherhood, living with this disease, but also about the legacy that he is working to leave for his kids.
As a part of this legacy, we talk about the new book he just released this month, Bedtime Stories for the Living.
About the Book
If you live with a rare life-altering disease, you spend a lot of time in your head. It’s hard to put the thoughts into words.
In Bedtime Stories for the Living, Jay Armstrong accurately articulates the thoughts of any person living with a rare disease or anyone simply struggling to overcome their challenges.”
Kyle Bryant, spokesperson for the Friedreich’s Ataxia Research Alliance and host of the Two Disabled Dudes podcast.
A regular dad. A rare brain disease. A chance to live forever.
A cell phone’s ring interrupts the silence as Jay Armstrong sits in his high school classroom preparing for the year ahead. Something about the ring makes his stomach drop. It’s his doctor.
The words, “diffuse cerebellar atrophy, a rare, degenerative brain disease” float through the speaker. All of Jay’s youthful dreams of being a writer rush back, flooding the twenty years he has spent teaching students how to appreciate novels, memoirs, and poetry. The care he put into teaching them how to write with clarity, insight, and humor, and how to dance at the prom. The bedtime stories he never told his children spin in his imagination. It will all die when he dies.
Bedtime Stories for the Living is an episodic memoir in which Jay shows his children how to accept their limitations and find joy. The collection of tender, witty stories about fatherhood, persevering despite illness, and pursuing your dreams, demonstrates how love gives us the strength to face heartache with bravery, humor, and grace.
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