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On this week’s Dads with Daughters podcast, we spoke with Kevin Baker, a certified life coach and father of three. Known affectionately as “Coach Kevin,” he offers unique insights into parenting through his personal and professional experiences. This episode delved into various aspects of fatherhood, particularly focusing on raising resilient daughters amidst challenges. Whether you’re a new dad or a seasoned parent, the lessons and strategies discussed provide valuable takeaways for all.
The Initial Joy and Unexpected Challenges
The Joy of Fatherhood
Kevin Baker’s journey into fatherhood was initially marked by joy and excitement—emotions that many of us can relate to. Upon learning that he would be having a daughter, his initial thoughts mirrored those of countless new dads: excitement quickly followed by planning. From due dates to potential weather conditions, Kevin and his wife wanted to be prepared for every scenario.
Navigating Health Challenges
However, their plans changed dramatically when their daughter was diagnosed with Tetralogy of Fallot, a congenital heart condition. This unexpected news threw Kevin and his wife into a whirlwind of medical appointments and surgeries. Through three open-heart surgeries, they learned an invaluable lesson about the unpredictability of life: planning is essential, but flexibility and emotional resilience are paramount.
Facing Parenthood Fears Head-On
Common Fears
Like many fathers, Kevin faced immense fears, particularly concerning his daughter’s future independence given her medical challenges. His fear extended into other areas, such as her social and emotional well-being. These fears initially overshadowed his joy but evolved over time. Kevin’s story is a testament to the fact that all parents, regardless of their child’s health, share common anxieties about their child’s future.
Overcoming Fear
Kevin emphasized the importance of addressing these fears constructively. He learned to channel his anxiety into positive, actionable steps. “Letting go of expectations,” he said, allowed him to focus on being present, loving, and patient. This mindset not only alleviated his fears but also enabled his daughter to thrive despite her challenges.
Reprogramming the Parental and Child Scripts
Resetting as Parents
Resetting parental expectations begins with a broad perspective on life. Kevin and his wife realized that life’s journey is long and unpredictable. They practiced zooming out to see the bigger picture, understanding that daily worries shouldn’t overshadow long-term happiness and success. This perspective shift provided them with emotional stability and resilience, enabling them to navigate their daughter’s health issues with greater ease.
Empowering Their Daughter
For their daughter, reprogramming her mindset involved instilling tools for self-empowerment. Kevin shared how they focused on open communication, consistent encouragement, and helping her develop critical life skills. A significant part of this was educating her about the reality of social media, debunking the myths of perfection that it often portrays. They reinforced her self-worth and capabilities, allowing her to combat negative thoughts effectively.
Coaching Tweens and Teens: A Broader Perspective
Understanding Teen Angst
Working with teens and tweens, both professionally and as a father, has given Kevin unique insights into the adolescent mind. He emphasizes the importance of understanding the thoughts and feelings that teens experience daily. Many teens struggle with feelings of inadequacy, anxiety, and a lack of direction, often exacerbated by societal pressures.
Strategies for Parents
Kevin’s primary advice for parents is to focus on connection and communication. Instead of pressing for immediate answers, he advises listening attentively—considering both words and body language—before responding thoughtfully. He acknowledges that parents might not always be the best confidants for their teens, suggesting the involvement of other trusted adults, like extended family members or professional coaches.
Resources and Final Thoughts
Kevin’s experiences and advice emphasize the importance of patience, understanding, and clear communication in parenting. One resource he recommends is Tara Brach’s book, “Radical Acceptance,” which advises parents to pause and breathe before reacting. This practice empowers both parent and child to make better decisions.
Closing Insights
To summarize, Kevin Baker’s journey offers invaluable lessons for all parents. His emphasis on patience, flexibility, and emotional resilience can guide us all in raising strong, independent children. Resources like “Radical Acceptance” and coaching can also provide valuable support as we navigate the challenges of parenthood.
For those looking to explore more about Kevin’s perspectives or seek personalized guidance, he is available through his website, lifecoachkevin.com, and various social media channels.
Fatherhood is an ever-evolving role, and by embracing lessons from leaders like Kevin Baker, we can strive to be the best dads we can be.
TRANSCRIPT (Unedited transcript created with CASTMAGIC)
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:00:05]:
Welcome to dads with daughters. In this show, we spotlight dads, resources, and more to help you be the best dad you can be.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:00:16]:
Welcome back to the Dads with Daughters podcast where we bring you guests to be active participants in your daughters’ lives, raising them to be strong, independent women. Really excited to have you back again this week. I love being able to sit down, talk to you, work with you as we are working to be the best dads that we can be and to be able to raise those strong independent women that we all want our daughters to become. And that being said, as I’ve said in the past, and I’ll say it again, I know it is so important that you’re here today because that means that you’re willing to learn, you’re willing to listen, and you’re willing to do what it takes to be able to get to that endpoint that you want for yourself and for your family. And to do that, you have to be willing to be open to listening, to learning, and to take it all in, and to figure out what works, and to figure out what works best for you and your family. Everything that you’re gonna be hearing today may not work exactly for your family. And that’s okay. Because each of us is going to father in different ways.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:01:15]:
There’s not one right way to father, and there’s no one playbook to follow to be able to know how best to be a father to your kids. There are so many different ways that you can do that. And what’s most important though, is that you’re willing to know and you’re willing to learn and find some of those other tools that you can add to your own toolbox to put into place and to be able to try some of those out. Because you know what? You might learn something new about yourself and something new that you can put into place to help you be that dad that you wanna be. And that’s why in every episode, I love being able to bring you different guests, different people with different experiences, different dads coming from different walks of life, and as well as other experts, other people that can help you to be that father that you wanna be. And this week, we have another great guest with us. This week, we have Kevin Baker joining us or otherwise known as coach Kevin. And coach Kevin’s gonna be talking with us about his own experience as a father of 3, as well as Kevin is a certified life coach who works with families and teams and helps individuals to be able to build the best version of themselves.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:02:26]:
We’re gonna be talking about that as well. So I’m really excited to have him here. Kevin, thanks so much for joining us today.
Kevin Baker [00:02:32]:
Oh, thanks for having me, Chris. It’s a pleasure to be here. And I look forward to getting some insights from you too. This is great.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:02:37]:
I really appreciate you being here today. And one of the things that I love to do, 1st and foremost, is turn the clock back in time. And I know you’ve got 3 kids, 1 daughter, and 2 sons. And I wanna turn the clock all the way back. I know you’ve got a 14 year old daughter, so let’s go back. Maybe it’s 13 years, maybe it’s 14 years, you never know. But talk to me about that first moment, that first reaction that you had when you found out that you were going to be a father to a daughter?
Kevin Baker [00:03:02]:
Oh, pure excitement and just so much joy. Overwhelming amount actually of excitement. And it quickly turned into, okay, what do I have to do next? What’s the next step? What do we do? So a little bit of anxiety being a plan. We started to make arrangements, figure out this is the due date.
Kevin Baker [00:03:18]:
What’s it going to be like? What’s the weather going to be like? Where are we going to go? What are we going to do? How are we going to do it? And so we had this great plan. And then fast forward 8 months, final checkup at the doc, they said, We’re seeing something with a heart and we want to get you guys over to the hospital to check it out. And 4 days later, our daughter was born and she was diagnosed in utero with a heart condition called Tetralogy of Fallot that would require intervention at some point, which was like a total shock to us. We did not expect this. We had these plans, but what about our plans? And so we very quickly learned that it’s great to have plans, but you could pretty much throw those out the window. And that has been the MO for my daughter ever since for the last 14 years. And it’s been great. What a great learning experience.
Kevin Baker [00:04:01]:
What a great way to what a great introduction into parenting is that it’s great to have expectations and it’s great to have plans, but really it’s all out of your control. So don’t stress too much about it when things deviate from what your perfect plan was. But fast forward 14 years, she’s had 3 open heart surgeries. She had 2, her 1st year of life where they corrected the ASD and the VSD in the heart and fixed one of her valves and also fixed the bundle of tissue that was sort of in the way of things. But she just recently on May 2nd, had her 3rd open heart surgery and is fully recovered from that. And she’s been swimming in the lake all summer. So it’s been fantastic. And we live right outside of Boston, which is probably one of the best places in the world to have that sort of thing happen.
Kevin Baker [00:04:38]:
So we’re grateful and we’re blessed that we’ve been through it. And it’s been a rollercoaster of feelings, ups and downs and but we know life is a long journey and we are giving her all the tools we possibly can for her toolbox to be strong and happy and successful whatever that means to her moving forward in life. So that is the short version of becoming a parent for me.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:04:59]:
Now, every father that I’ve talked to talks about fear, and your fears may be very different than some other dads, especially with some of these surgeries that your daughter has had to have in her first 14 years of life. But I’m gonna ask you the question anyways. As you entered into fatherhood, and as you’ve gone through these 14 years, what’s been the biggest fear that you’ve had in raising a daughter?
Kevin Baker [00:05:23]:
You know, that’s a great question. The biggest fear that I’ve had, just because my daughter has had so many challenges I would say that she’s had to overcome and she still does. She’s got some communication issues, you know, some social emotional stuff happening, you know, which a lot of kiddos do. But I think my biggest fear is that she wouldn’t be prepared for life outside of the house when it’s time for her to be independent. And that was a fear of mine. However, it’s not a fear of mine anymore. And I have been able to take all those thoughts and all those fears that I’ve had and let them go and sort of let go of all my expectations about what she’s going to do when she gets older, who she’s going to be when she grows up and just know in my heart and in my soul that we’re are doing the best job that we possibly can to help this kiddo figure out who she wants to be on her own. And she’s learning and she’s doing great.
Kevin Baker [00:06:12]:
And that all gets reinforced to us through parent teacher conferences or speaking with other adults that help out along the way to raise our family and when I’m able to let go of the fears and let go of the expectations and just know that everything’s going to be okay because we have the tools to deal with it, then we’re all a lot happier for it. And so, I try to not be afraid of anything because that doesn’t serve anyone.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:06:39]:
You’re not the only father that has had to have those fears and has not had a child that has had to have all of those challenges within her life and that they’ve had to deal with in their life. But not every father has had to also deal with those. And sometimes things can change. Things can get thrown through a loop, and you’ve definitely had to deal with that. I guess as I think about that and what you just said, I’ve got 2 questions. 1st, tell me about what you and your significant other had to do to be able to reset that mindset. I’m gonna say maybe programming. Reset the script that you had in your brain about how things were going to be versus how they were? And then, 2, how have you had to work to help your own daughter to reset her script about the way in which she had to see this for herself?
Kevin Baker [00:07:34]:
The first an the answer to the first question is that, you know, we really in order to reset the script as parents, we had to zoom way out on life and realize that, you know, life is a long journey. And, you know, everybody goes through stuff day to day that gets you emotional. It gives you different thoughts that you have to work through and overcome. There’s a lot of worry. The world is a busy, hectic and anxiety inducing place when you think about all the things that could happen in life. But being able to zoom out and know that, yeah, some days are really, really hard. But if you think about it the right way and you know that tomorrow’s another day and it’s all going to be fine and we have the tools and we have the for instance, the greatest medical professionals, some of the greatest medical professionals in the world here to help us deal with some of this stuff and know that we are smart and capable adults that can work through any problem that presents itself to us. All we have to do is breathe and reason and have the resources that we were taught to use growing up, that we’re going to get through it and it’s going to be okay.
Kevin Baker [00:08:33]:
And yeah, there are a lot of nights where there’s anxiety about what’s going to happen. Is she going to be okay? Is she going to be able to play on the playground? Is she going to have restrictions? Is she going to be able to get a job one day? Is she going to be able to drive? All these things that us as parents we worry about. But really, if we just focus on being present and showing love and having patience, then we have everything we need to be the best parents we can be and taking the anxiety and the worry about the future out of it and just focus on the present and do the best we can. That’s how we get by day to day. And yes, some days are hard, but we get through it. We keep our positive mindset and we get through it and you know it gets better. And once you know it the next day when you tell yourself it’s all going to be fine, it actually is. And how has my daughter been able to reset? We’ve given her a lot of tools and she’s developed a lot of tools to be able to keep up with her classmates and her peers and to be able to communicate as effectively as possible with her teachers and her other trusted adults.
Kevin Baker [00:09:32]:
And we tell her that she’s doing a great job and we congratulate her and we’re her cheerleader and we keep an open and transparent relationship so we can communicate and try and figure out what thoughts are you having and how can we help you with whatever you’re dealing with? And just to keep that open dialogue and communication and let her know that everything’s going to be okay. And now that she’s 14, a lot of the reset is trying to impress upon her that what some of the stuff she might see online or on social media isn’t really the whole truth. And some of these folks may be just showing you the top 1%, all the good stuff that’s happening in their life. And maybe you don’t have the fear of missing out on that because that might not be a 100% real. So bringing that all back down to reality, is a really important aspect of keeping that reset in play.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:10:15]:
It is such an important thing. I’ve seen it in my own daughters, and I know that so many parents do, especially in those tween and teen years. And I mentioned the fact that you had a lot of opportunity over your career to be able to work with teens and tweens, to be able to really look at who they want to be, but also how they want to get there, and helping people and helping teens in that way.
Kevin Baker [00:10:42]:
You know, the number one thing that I hear from kiddos all the time, and one of the things that we work through, because I think it’s the most important thing to work through with them, is what is going on in their mind, and what thoughts are they having when they’re put in certain situations that are causing the feelings and emotions that they’re having that are causing the actions or non action that they’re taking, which is leading to results that are either what they’re looking for or not what they’re looking for. So digging into what issue are they having? Is it an issue about friends? Is it academic performance? Is it something happened to do with anxiety? Or is it a lack of motivation? All these things that the parents see as red flags for instance, when they are, you know, spending too much time on the computer or not getting good grades or not socializing with too many friends or not finding interest in things that are happening in and around their life. And so, what we talk about right off the bat is what are the thoughts that you’re having? And a lot of them are having thoughts that they’re not good enough or they’re never going to make it or, you know, they’ll never be, you know, rich and famous or they don’t know what they want to do with their life or they’re wasting time or, you know, all these negative, deconstructive, limiting beliefs that they’ve had through inputs from parents, teachers and you know, there’s a saying, it’s parents, teachers, and preachers that really influence the belief systems that we have and parents influence their kiddos with beliefs without even knowing that they’re actually programming the mind of their child. So digging into really what are those beliefs? What are those thoughts you’re having? And why are you having that thought that you’re not good enough? And how did that come to be? And then dissecting it. And then giving them an opposite, more empowering, constructive thought like actually, you know, with practice, I will be good enough and I could actually be one of the best or I am going to make it. You know, with hard work and persistence, I am going to make it and I’m going to be one of the best. And give them that mindset that when they have one of those negative thoughts and they have a thought that they know is not a fact to analyze that, and they come up with a new thought that empowers them. And when they have the ability to change that, to recognize that they are not their thoughts and the thoughts are just an internal narrative that’s happening, everybody has it.
Kevin Baker [00:12:53]:
It’s a voice in their head and everybody has it, but when you can control it so that it tells you so that it doesn’t hold you back and it actually pushes you forward so you can get through whatever’s holding you back without talking yourself out of it, that’s where we want to be with the kiddos. You know, we want to give them the ability to empower themselves when a situation arises so that when they start to feel negative or they have an experience and, you know, they think they’re not good enough, that they tell themselves like, hold up, you are good enough, you got this, Just do it.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:13:22]:
And one of the things that can get really challenging in those teen and tween years is that your your children are going to are going through this transition, are going through this transition that all of us went through as kids, where they begin to test the waters even more and test the values and the family mores that have been put into place and that they’ve been growing up with to try to identify who do they, who are they, who do they wanna be, who are they, to try to identify who they are and who they want to be. And that can be really challenging for parents in many different ways. So I guess I’d love to have you talk to me a little bit about the work that you’ve done with tweens and teens. And as you’re working with them as individuals from their perspective, what are you hearing from them? What are some of the things that they’re saying to you? And I know you’re trying to work with the parents as well because sometimes parents just don’t understand as they’re trying to parent these kids through what they’re going through. So are there things that they can do to be able to reconnect and be able to understand their kids in a different way?
Kevin Baker [00:14:28]:
Well, that’s a great question, and and it’s it’s almost a trick question because when you’re a parent asking those questions and trying to understand your kiddo, they don’t always respond, and it doesn’t work. Parents, it doesn’t work when you’re trying to do that with your kiddo. That’s why it takes a village, and you need to have other trusted people in your circle that can work with you and your kiddo to get to the bottom of it because they’re not gonna be as open with you no matter what. You could be the you could have the closest relationship. Like this kind of stuff doesn’t work with my kids. It works great with everybody else’s but, you know, there’s a thing. We have a limit on what we can do. So and it’s just because they see us 20 hours a day or whatever it is.
Kevin Baker [00:15:07]:
You know, it’s because we’re there. We have all these other roles and responsibilities that sometimes prevents us from cracking the code with our own kiddos. But I would say that letting your kiddo know that, Hey, I’m here for you if you need anything, like if you want to talk. And really the first thing to do is connect. Like find the one thing that you can do to really connect with your child because it might be sitting down and watching them play a video game and asking them questions about it and then see what conversation comes from that. But showing them that you’re there and you care, and then making that judgment as a parent, it’s like, Is there something going on? And what can we do to help you get through some of this stuff? And they might have an aunt or uncle that they respect that’s not the parent that can come in and open them up a little bit and get into that conversation. Or before you go to therapy, I always say triage with coaching because, you know, a lot of the stuff can be talked through. And when we focus on the positive with coaching, sometimes people don’t need to go to therapy.
Kevin Baker [00:16:08]:
Sometimes they do need to go to therapy. But parents start with connection and communicating and letting them know that you’re there and you care is the number one thing.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:16:15]:
So listening to what you just said, one question that still comes to my mind is if your child is having those thoughts, if you’re noticing it, where’s the best place to start in having these conversations with them, to engage with them, and to try to help them understanding that we may not understand completely what’s going on as well? Doctor. Robert Whitfield
Kevin Baker [00:16:33]:
(zero forty five:fifty four): And people change along the way. Parents change along the way. I’ve had 3 kids, and I think that they each have sort of had a different version of me as their father, as I’ve become a better dad or not, depending on which kid you ask. But we learn, and we get new tools, And I have become a better father. Over the 14 years, you know, you learn as you go, and the kiddos change drastically.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:16:53]:
I love that concept because I think that sometimes parents get themselves into a situation where they’re racking their brains, and they’re trying to figure out how can I connect with them better? How can I do something to be able to reconnect? And it doesn’t always happen. Now, I am making a generalization because every child is different. And as you inevitably probably either have heard or will hear, older people are always saying to newer parents, oh, you know, just wait until those teenage years. Well, the teenage years are not always going to be challenging. They may be, but they’re not always going to be. So you have to realize that every child is different. And when you have multiple kids, each of your children may be different when it comes to how they go through their tween and teenage year experiences for themselves. So as you’re going through this with your kids and you’re realizing that each of your children are going to be different, sometimes you have kids that are going through this at the same time, and you have to have a different approach.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:17:53]:
And you have to have a different approach to working with your children. It’s not always a rinse, wash, and repeat. What do you say to parents when it comes to parenting multiple tween or teens during the same period? Because we know that each of them are not going to be able to go through the same process together.
Kevin Baker [00:18:12]:
Yeah. I think it’s important to know that all kids are different. And, yes, they all come from you, but they are all very, very much different. And they all have their own vision. They all have their own vision, their own subconscious, and, and they all need to be treated similarly, but they’re all gonna have different needs. And so trying to identify, I guess, what each kiddo needs that’s different from one another is something you have to really be aware of. And that comes from listening. And when your child’s talking to you, not racking your brain, thinking about what you’re gonna say back to them, but to actually just listen, like to all the words and how they’re saying it and what their body language is telling you while they say it.
Kevin Baker [00:18:52]:
And then take all that information in and determine what your response is going to be. And to not react right away, but to give it time and pause and let everything they’re saying go through the emotional part of processing and give it a minute and then reply with a reasoned response is the best way to try and figure out who each one of your kiddos is individually. And then let them know that they have such special characteristics and, you know, they have this unique identifier that is them and their personality and what you love about it to help foster that sense of individuality and to build up their self confidence and their self esteem and their self-concept because they all need to have, they all need to know their important qualities and their characteristics and their values. Like you might have a kiddo who’s very sensitive and empathetic and caring and loving and really cherishes family and friendships. And you might have another kiddo who is a little bit, I don’t know, more outgoing. Maybe they’re a jokester. You know, maybe they are the life of the party. You know, maybe they were always the ones doing magic tricks growing up, trying to be the center of attention.
Kevin Baker [00:20:00]:
You know, so all kids are different, and they all have their different qualities in trying to foster that so that your kiddos grow up with their own sense of self-concept which will carry them through life. And that’s the thing that on the hard days when they get faced with an issue with friends or something academically that they can say like, You know what? I’m really smart and I can do this. Or, I am super friendly and no matter what that person says, like, I know I’m me and I am a great person and I can do this and I can make these friends or whatever the case may be, but giving them that sense of self.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:20:30]:
Now, I know that you’ve worked with a lot of not only tweens and teens but also parents. And as you work with these individuals, are there any resources that you encourage parents or fathers to refer to as they’re going through this period of time with their teen and tweens?
Kevin Baker [00:20:45]:
I mean, there are some great podcasts out there, this being one of them. There’s so many different resources for parents to dig in and to really spend time paying attention to. I think one of the authors that I think is really hitting the nail on the head is her name is Tara Brach. Tara Brach wrote and really the essence of it is to when you are faced with a situation with your kiddo and you don’t know what to do, and maybe you’re having an argument, maybe you want them to do some chores that they are procrastinating on. Maybe there’s something you need them to do that they’re not doing it and you’re about to get really with them, but to pause and breathe. The book is called Radical Acceptance. And in essence, it is, you know, accept that your kiddo is their own person and they know the right answers in their subconscious. They know what to do and they want to please their parents.
Kevin Baker [00:21:36]:
And if we pause and we breathe and we give them a chance to do that without intervening, kids will make the right decisions. And to be able to practice that and then actually see it happen, like right before you knock on your kiddo’s door, after you’ve asked them to come down for dinner half a dozen times and they’re still up there playing Fortnite or whatever it is, just walk away and don’t nag them anymore and let them make the decision and let them make the choice and have the consequence because it’s all a learning experience. And reading that book, Radical Acceptance, was a game changer for me in parenting and I’m happy to share that resource with whoever’s interested.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:22:10]:
Now, we always finish our interviews with what I like to call our fatherhood 5, where I ask you 5 more questions to delve deeper into you as a dad. Are you ready?
Kevin Baker [00:22:18]:
Yep. Ready.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:22:18]:
In one word, what is fatherhood?
Kevin Baker [00:22:20]:
Patience.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:22:21]:
When was the time that you finally felt that you succeeded at being a father to a daughter?
Kevin Baker [00:22:25]:
When she made the honor roll.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:22:26]:
Now, if I was to talk to your 3 kids, how would they describe you as a dad?
Kevin Baker [00:22:30]:
Maybe cringey. A little bit cringe. It’s a new term that when I tell my dad jokes, they don’t sometimes they don’t find them funny, they find them cringey. But I’d say fun, most of the time.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:22:38]:
Who inspires you to be a better dad?
Kevin Baker [00:22:40]:
Let’s say my father.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:22:41]:
Now, you’ve given a lot of piece of advice today, things that every dad can think about. What’s one piece of advice you’d wanna give to every dad?
Kevin Baker [00:22:47]:
I would say breathe. Breathe. When it gets tough, just breathe and let the emotion pass because emotions change. You might have an emotion of anger or being overwhelmed or being anxious about a certain situation your kid may or may not be faced with. But I think breathing is the most important thing we can do.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:23:03]:
Well, Kevin, I just wanna say thank you for helping teens and tweens, and thank you for being here today for sharing your wisdom on working with those teens and tweens, and for telling us more about your experience as a father. If people wanna find out more about you, where should they go?
Kevin Baker [00:23:17]:
Sure. They can go to life coach Kevin.com. So on Instagram at life coach Kevin and on Facebook at teen life coach. Happy to have consultation calls with anyone that’s seen some red flags. If you’re frustrated or confused with what’s going on with your kiddo, feel free to sign up for a call, and we can chat through it and see if working together might be the right fit.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:23:33]:
I really appreciate you being here today, and I wish you all the best.
Kevin Baker [00:23:37]:
Same here, Chris. Thanks a lot.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:23:38]:
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