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In this week’s episode of the Dads with Daughters podcast, we had the pleasure of speaking with Dr. Ryan Senters, a dedicated father of two biological children and nine adopted kids, who also runs a nonprofit, called Ohana, providing housing and support for foster children. We discussed the joys and fears of fatherhood, the challenges of raising daughters, and the importance of being intentional in parenting.
The First Steps of Fatherhood
Finding Out You’re Going to Be a Dad
Recalling the moment he found out he was going to be a father to his first daughter, Brooklyn, Ryan Senters felt a wave of excitement and a profound sense of responsibility. He and his wife had been trying to conceive for two years, making the news even more special. Ryan described feeling the urgency to “get this right,” a sentiment many new fathers can relate to.
“When we found out that I was gonna have our daughter, Brooklyn, just yeah. Sure excitement and a sense of, like, probably responsibility of, like, oh, jeez. I gotta take this serious here. I gotta make sure that I do this right.” — Dr. Ryan Senters
Overcoming Fears
Many fathers admit to feeling a unique set of fears when they learn they’re expecting a daughter. Ryan was no different, expressing anxiety about being present and doing everything “right,” especially since he lacked a paternal role model growing up. He noted the irrationality of some of these fears but acknowledged how they shaped his approach to fatherhood.
“I was just worried that I needed to make sure that I know it’s not a right way, but in my head, I was very thick. I had this fixed mindset. I would needed to get this right.” — Dr. Ryan Senters
The Challenges of Raising Daughters
Being a Role Model
One of Ryan’s significant concerns was modeling the kind of man he wanted his daughters to value in their future. He emphasized the importance of being intentionally present, not just for his daughters but also for his wife, to set a positive example. His daughters, one biological and one adopted, keep looking to him for wisdom and guidance.
“They deserve to be independent and helping them develop self-confidence. They need to have a dad in their corner that’s cheering them on and an example to what it means to have a man in their life.” — Dr. Ryan Senters
Balancing Life and Responsibilities
As a busy professional and father of many, Ryan discussed the concept of balance. He highlighted the seasonality of responsibilities and stressed the importance of mental reset techniques, like the photo in his garage that reminds him of his primary job when entering his home. Ryan advocates for being an “intentional father” rather than just a “present” one, incorporating activities like tech-free Sundays to foster family bonds.
The Adoption Journey
Deciding to Adopt
Ryan and his wife always felt a calling towards fostering and adopting children. They opened their home to numerous children over 15 years, offering them a loving and stable environment. Ryan shared touching stories about his adopted children, like his daughter Pima, who struggled with her past but found strength and identity within their family.
“We have this mantra in our family: you are strong, you are brave, and you are kind. And so when she gets that, you are so strong… That’s a big moment for us.” — Dr. Ryan Senters
Expanding the Family
The decision to adopt more children came with challenges. Ryan recalled selling their home to move into a larger space that could accommodate five more children, a testament to their dedication and love. Their nonprofit, Ohana, named after a meaningful family quote, strives to find forever families for kids in need, embodying the belief that every child deserves a family.
“Ohana means family and family means no one’s left behind or forgotten. And it was so significant for our family.” — Dr. Ryan Senters
Building a Legacy: Ohana
Ryan also spoke about his nonprofit organization, Ohana, which provides crucial support, housing, and family connections for foster children. His work not only benefits his family but extends to helping other families navigate the complexities of fostering and adoption.
“Our belief is that every child deserves a family. Our belief is that a kid’s past story doesn’t define them. And what we have learned is that if a family is consistent and present, any child’s past hurts can be healed.” — Dr. Ryan Senters
Conclusion
Ryan Senters’ journey is a testament to the power of intentional fatherhood and the impact a loving, supportive family can have on a child’s life. His story encourages all dads to step up, be present, and be intentional in their parenting, whether with biological or adopted children. For more insights and stories like Ryan’s, check out the Dads with Daughters podcast and consider diving into additional resources available at fatheringtogether.org.
TRANSCRIPT (Unedited transcript created with CASTMAGIC)
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:00:05]:
Welcome to dads with daughters. In this show, we spotlight dads, resources, and more to help you be the best dad you can be.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:00:16]:
Welcome back to the dads with daughters podcast where we bring you guests to be active participants in your daughters’ lives, raising them to be strong, independent women. Really excited to have you back again this week. And as always, every week, I love being able to be on this journey with you because you and I are on a journey together. I’ve got 2 daughters, you’ve got daughters. We are working through this trying to figure it out as we go along. None of us have all the answers. So it’s important to be able to learn from other people and be open to learning from other people. And that’s why this show is here.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:00:49]:
This show is here to be able to provide you resources, provide you opportunities to, to hear from other dads, other people with different experiences that can help you to be the dad that you wanna be and help you to raise your daughters to be those strong independent women that you want them to be as well. Today, we got another great guest with us today. Doctor Ryan Centers is with us today, and Ryan is a father of 2 biological kids, 9 adopted kids, but he also runs a nonprofit that has been able to provide housing and support for more than 500 foster children. He’s a busy guy, And I am really excited to have him here to learn more from him and his journey and to introduce him to you. Ryan, thanks so much for being here today.
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:01:35]:
Yeah. Thanks for having me on.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:01:36]:
It is my pleasure. And I love being able to learn from other dads. And, one of the things that I love doing first and foremost is turning the clock back in time. So I wanna go all the way back to your first biological daughter, that daughter that that made you a father. But I wanna go back to that first moment that you found out you were going to be a father to a daughter. What was going through your head?
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:01:56]:
My wife and I were trying to get pregnant for a lot probably 2 years. So probably it was just more excitement than anything else. We really didn’t have any expectation, boy or girl, but when we found out that I was gonna have our daughter, Brooklyn, just yeah. Sure excitement and a sense of, like, probably responsibility of, like, oh, jeez. I gotta take this serious here. I gotta make sure that I do this right.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:02:15]:
Oh, and I don’t know that there is one right way to do it. There isn’t one right way to do it. So a lot of dads say, I’ve got to get this right. I got to do it right. There’s got to be a right way to do it. And I keep saying, no, there’s not. There’s not one right way. There’s lots of ways.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:02:29]:
So thinking back to those first days of being a dad, and I I talk to a lot of dads with daughters and a lot of dads are there’s fear going into being a father, but there’s also a fear of being a father to a daughter. What was your biggest fear in being a father to a daughter?
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:02:47]:
Yeah. I guess when I was as I think back, I think generally when we when I had my little girl in my in my arms, I was just like, one, just never have done this before and kinda felt a little bit useless. My wife did a great job and was very patient very patient with me. And obviously, I wanted to be involved, but I guess my fear being with my, daughter is that I needed to, I don’t know, just being present. I was just worried that I needed to make sure that I know it’s not a right way, but in my head I was very thick. I had this fixed mindset. I would needed to get this right. So it was a little bit irrational and a little bit probably not correct, but I was 28 years old and trying to figure this out.
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:03:27]:
And I was like, oh, shoot. I need to make sure that this like, my dad, Nessa, wasn’t active in my life, so I didn’t really have a picture of that. So I didn’t have a compass to kinda help direct that. So for me, I it produced a little bit of anxiety in the beginning stages because I wanted to make sure that I wasn’t doing it wrong. And I think my past story and, like, my my family of origin really kinda impacted and shaped how I viewed and my fears kind of were a little bit irrational starting off.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:03:56]:
Now, as I mentioned, you’ve got a few daughters and a number of sons that you’ve adapted as well. And I guess as you think about your daughters and raising your daughters into the women that they have become, what’s been the hardest part of being a father to a daughter?
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:04:11]:
I think for me, probably the hardest part of being a father to daughter is just making sure I’m modeling to them what they want for their future spouse is I have to be intentional and present with my kids, but also intentionally and present with my wife and kind of model that. I know they’re watching, especially now my daughter’s 14, My adopted daughter’s 25, and she’s now married. So they’re coming to us for wisdom and guidance, and I wanna make sure that I’m helping model what they’re a princess and, like, they deserve the best and they deserve to be independent. They’re gonna be independent and helping them develop self confidence. They need to have a dad in their corner that’s cheering them on and an example to what it means to have a man in their life.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:05:00]:
I mentioned that you’re a busy guy. You’re running a nonprofit. You work in a community college and working with students there. You are doing a lot of different things. You’ve got a large family as well where you’re balancing all of that. Talk to me about balance and what you’ve had to do to be able to balance your professional life, your personal life, to be that dad that you wanted to be.
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:05:21]:
I guess when I think of the word balance, I don’t necessarily know about if you’re ever gonna balance it all out, but there is gonna be seasonality of certain things. So as I’m growing a business and then also building out a nonprofit, there is seasons where I have to be super intentional with that. And then there are seasons when like this summer, I’m just fully present with my kids. And one of the things that I’ve always tried to do is actually, as I go into my garage at home, there’s a picture on the front and the driveway, as I go to park and it is a mental reset in my head that says, all right, this is my first ministry. This is my most important thing. This is my number one job is I don’t get to just go home and just veg out. Even if I had a stressful conversation, stressful workday, have a bunch of deals undone, or I’ve had hard conversations. Like I have to get the reserve out of the tank and I have to reset my mind and say like, alright.
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:06:14]:
So it’s like a visual representation as I’m walking into my house that I’m like, alright. First ministry engaged with my kids. And what I’ve learned is that, like, there are certain moments with kids that are more, like, are more critical than others. So like early in the morning when they’re waking up 5 minutes of attentional time, 1 on 1 eating breakfast together around the dinner table, there’s no tech. There is time to like, and in the evening, going to saying prayers or going to bed at night. That’s a really critical moment for our family. And then we’ve also built into our schedule. Like we have tech free Sundays, so it’s kind of unique.
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:06:49]:
We got 9 kids at home and they like technology just matches any other kid, but that’s like a family day of like intentionality. I think there’s been a shift with parenthood and fatherhood that it used to be like, Hey, in the old days, if you could just like make sure they’re taken care of, that’s great. Then it’s the last probably 2 decades been like be a present father. But I think now I think that’s halfway right. But I think now it needs to be like, now you need to be an intentional father, intentional to how you want them to develop. So for us, intentionality is critical. So for us, we do tech free Sundays. We have like a family breakfast.
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:07:25]:
We’ll go to play ball or play basketball, and we’ll do some kind of activity together and laugh. Have fun play together when parents and dads play with their kids, play with their daughters, that’s like releases so much stress and brings bond and it develops like oxytocin in the brain. And it’s very important for kids to feel bonded and safe.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:07:48]:
So I mentioned that you have your 2 biological kids, you have 9 adopted kids. Tell me the story of moving into being a adoptive father and what that journey was like for you that made you and your wife decide that you wanted to move down that path?
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:08:06]:
So we had a one biological daughter, Brooklyn. She’s 14 now. And then we always felt called. I worked in a shelter in graduate school, working with kids in coming out of jail or had didn’t have families. And I just fell in love with that work and knew that that was part of our path. It’s crazy. Even at, you’re not really twenties, my wife and I knew like, Hey, we’re going to be a foster parent someday, which is pretty abnormal. So when we started, after we had our first daughter, we opened up our license.
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:08:31]:
We’ve been foster grand for 15 years, have taken in, I would say about 15 kids and we had 4 for a little over 12 years ago, we had 4 kids under 4, which is a lot. And we had 2 biological kids and then 2 adopted kids and our life felt pretty good. I was working in a foster care group homes and there is a girl there though, she’s 14 years old and she’s was one of like very quiet and reserved and she was available for adoption. And I just kind of developed a bond with her. And my wife actually saw her on these websites that were talking about adoption and she kept pointing her out to me. And long story short, we just kind of felt called to take a leap. And we, we took her in as a 14 year old and she was the most shy reserved girl. She never played any sports in her life.
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:09:16]:
I remember her senior year, she, we finally convinced her to go on some kind of sports team and she did badminton. I was like, oh, sweet badminton. And if you’ve ever went to a badminton game or a, a match, it’s quiet. And I didn’t know the rules and she’s hitting the birdie and hitting it over. And I’m just, we’re just cheering her and all of our siblings just cheering her on like crazy. And we didn’t know the etiquette of the of the sport at all. But what I was so proud is that her senior year, she’s been quiet and reserved her whole life. We go to do the banquet and she got player of the year and we were so proud of her.
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:09:53]:
We have this mantra in our family and we, we say it over our kids. We think identity and language is really important for kids. So we say Pima, our daughter, you are strong, you are brave and you are kind, you are strong, you are brave, and you are kind. We say that’s three things over and over again. In our business, we have them that says, you are strong, you are brave, you are kind. And so when she gets that payment, you are so strong. And like, or when she was nervous to go get her go to the community for the first time and go, Hey, I’m going to drive you up there, but you got to walk in. So dad, I can’t do it.
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:10:22]:
Dad, I can’t do it. No. Pima, you are strong. You are brave. Let’s go. And she stepped out and did that. And I remember so vividly her freshman year, she was finishing up her community college test and she went across the street to go get something to eat. And she looks over and she sees this guy panhandling on the street and are panhandling it.
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:10:41]:
And she looks over and does a double take. And she realized she recognizes this guy, but he looks at her and he doesn’t recognize her. She looks again, her heart starts to race and she says, dad, and it’s her biological dad who’s been an addict most of his life, is homeless on the street. And he said, do I know you? And he didn’t even recognize her. And it just threw her in a spin. And that evening she comes home. We don’t hear about this. She comes home and we’re putting our younger four to bed and she’s there with us.
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:11:07]:
And she tells my wife and I this story. And she’s shaking and she’s sitting to us and then just starts to cry. And we say, Pima, you are strong, you are brave, and you are kind. You are loved. You are a center. You are so important in trying to speak that over her where someone feels so insecure and feels like nothing. And for girls, that’s very, very common. And I think a dad’s role is to speak truth and treat, speak that identity over her.
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:11:32]:
And minutes later, she says, I want to put the kids to bed and she’s never puts our kids to bed. So she runs upstairs, passes me by up the stairs and she runs up to my youngest son who’s now 4 years old and she says, Maddox, she says, you are strong, you are brave and you are kind and you are going to college. And for me, she is now living into her identity and living into it and developing confidence because she’s able to, to spur that onto other people. And for me, that’s the role of a dad. It’s the role of a foster parent. And that’s a big moment for us. We have group homes and there was 5 kids that didn’t have a family and our family was full. And long story short, we just kind of felt called to it.
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:12:13]:
And it was a 2 year old to a 13 year old. We sold our house 2 years ago, found a place that could fit everybody, reopen our foster license, and took in these 5 kids and adopted them all this summer. So that’s been a whirlwind as well. So I feel like I’ve lived enough for 3 decades for sure in 20 years.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:12:30]:
So you also run a nonprofit that helps to connect kids with families. And not only are you taking these kids into your own family and creating these opportunities for but you’re also creating opportunities for other families as well. So talk to me about that and what drove you to create this nonprofit called Ohana that that is providing that, but also connecting these kids with other families.
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:13:03]:
One of our adopted sons, we always called him Stitch, like from the movie, Lilo and Stitch. She’s like this wild terror alien baby thing. And we always called him Stitch to life. He’s a lover and a terror. And there’s a quote in the movie. It says, Ohana means family and family means no one’s left behind or forgotten. And it was so significant for our family. That’s why we started our nonprofit called Ohana.
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:13:23]:
And our belief is that every child deserves a family. Our belief is that a kid’s past story doesn’t define them. And what we have learned is that if a family is consistent and present, like any child’s past hurts can be healed. So, we have kids who are available for adoption that we are trying to find forever families for. So we’ve adopted kids through that program, but we have about 90 kids that we serve and we have about 10 kids that get adopted every year, which is some of the biggest joy and awesome parts of the journey. And we try to equip parents that parents are like, oh, like when I was a young parent, I was like, I gotta be perfect and do this right. Even more so when you work as a foster parent. Oh, I gotta do this right.
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:14:07]:
Yeah. Throw that out the window. Show up, be present, love them well, and they’ll be alright.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:14:12]:
Well, and that’s what I was gonna ask you was when you look at your whole family and how you parent your biological kids, your adoptive kids, I would guess I have 2 biological kids. I do not have adopted kids, but and I have not been a foster parent. But in my perspective, I would guess that you have to parent them the same way and you have to love them the same way.
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:14:31]:
Absolutely. Yeah. So I, you, and it’s interesting that like kids that we have adopted, like they are part of our family, the love that we have, people like, how could you do that? How could you love, like, I don’t know your heart just kind of grows. Like, it’s like part of the calling of like the adoption and foster care. But yes, you have to, I think you have to adjust your expectations when you’re having a foster adopted child. Some of my kids, my son was in 7th grade and he was reading at a 2nd grade level. Okay. I can’t have the same expectations for him.
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:15:00]:
And some parents would be like, Hey, he needs to just focus on school. No sports. But I knew my kid had needed an outlet and he needed to move his body and needed to have something where he could have some wins and success. And for him it was soccer. So I made sure that he played soccer where my other kid says, Hey, if you have missing assignment, dude, you’re not going to practice. But this kid needed to make sure that, so there is some, you have to adjust kind of your expectations and sometimes bonding takes more time, but they need love. Like my 25 year old daughter, she just still like, it took her forever to be able to hug and I didn’t want to ever force it hug. But now she’s like, first thing she does, she comes into my house and wants to give us the biggest hug and for an adopted child, that’s a big deal.
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:15:41]:
Especially for a 14 year old black girl who doesn’t know, and I was a 35 year old white guy. It felt off. It didn’t feel comfortable for her. And I respected that. But now it’s time it’s like, no, we’re family. Like we’re love. Like the love is deeper than any thing that makes us different.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:15:59]:
So if people are interested in being potential foster parents in the future, sometimes people think that this is a process that is really difficult and something that they don’t wanna move down or they’re scared because of some of the the things that kids may bring with them and what they have to be able to struggle with as a family, as they’re bringing them into their family. What do you say to those people and how to get in or to work through some of the challenges that they may encounter in bringing foster kids into your family?
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:16:35]:
A couple things. 1, you have to, 1, adjust your expectations. 1, it’s not about you. It’s about the child. So that has to be reorient yourself. I work with a lot of families that wanna complete their family. And that’s great. I respect that.
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:16:46]:
It can, that can be part of it. But also the primary thing is, like, I see this child and I want to make sure that they have hope and healing. That’s gotta be foundation. But then there’s also, like, just some people have been through it before. So I always reached out to people who have been in this before. Like, when we were struggling with our son and having behaviors, my god, what the what the crap do I do here? I asked people that knew. So there’s, like, general words of wisdom is like, a, take younger than your kids that you have in your home. Take younger.
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:17:15]:
Because why? Because they will help guide the culture of what to expect for them. I wouldn’t get a kid that’s older than your biological children. And making sure that you know their history and are prepared for that is an important aspect as well. And then having other people in your corner. So for me, it’s like, I always gotta have family. I gotta have family, friends. We have a family of friends that will take their kid for a night and just give us a moment to reset. Because you’re like, oh, this is a lot, occasionally.
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:17:43]:
And having family to kinda help. Hey. Can you take the kids for a night so my wife and I so we can just have a chance to reset ourselves. And that was a big, big important thing.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:17:52]:
Now we always finish our interviews with what I like to call our fatherhood 5, where I ask you 5 more questions to delve deeper into you as a dad. Are you ready?
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:18:00]:
Yep. Gotcha. is fatherhood?
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:18:00]:
In one word, what
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:18:02]:
Intentional.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:18:03]:
When was the time that you finally felt like you succeeded at being a father to a daughter?
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:18:08]:
My 14 year old daughter, we went to a dad daughter dance, and she loved being the dad’s princess and being with me all the time. And we have the 4 year old little girl and she’s like, we need to make sure she comes too. And she taught her how to dance and do all this other stuff. So that was a really big win. And we also just had my wife’s 40th birthday and my daughter did a toast to her and talked so many great things. And my son, like, prayed over and blessing over the whole night. So that was super humbling and great.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:18:36]:
Now if I was to talk to your kids, how would they describe you as a dad?
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:18:40]:
I think they would say I’m fun. Love to play sport with the kids. I’m strict. They know that. And I’m a big believer that centers do hard things. So they know we do hard things together.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:18:51]:
Now who inspires you to be a better dad?
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:18:52]:
My father-in-law for sure didn’t have a dad, but he is a great picture of a dad for me.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:18:57]:
Now you’ve given a lot of piece of advice. You’ve shared your story and talked about what you’ve gone through as a father yourself, or at least part of what you’ve gone through as a father yourself. As we finish up today, what’s one piece of advice you’d wanna give to every dad?
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:19:09]:
Kinda go back. Fatherhood is more than just being present. Present is good. Present is is showing up to the game. It’s maybe coaching once in a while. Maybe it’s making sure you’re not on your phone when your kids are talking to you present. That’s awesome. But I think the next step of fatherhood is intentionality.
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:19:26]:
Intentionality is having a picture of what you want your family to be about. A picture of what you want your kids’ lives to be about. I want my kids to be more generous. I want them to serve others. I want them to learn to do hard things. So what’s the picture? And then intentionality is, like, creating opportunities and moments to do those things and naming those. So for us, it’s like we have an intentional like, we wanna we’re creating a ranch for kids with special needs. So for us, like, we do hard things.
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:19:53]:
So we’re building our chicken coop, and we’re all doing that together. My daughter, she’s in a power of tools and making it happen. Why? Because I am teaching us, one, we do hard things and that we serve others. And I’m always pointing towards that So my kids can be reinforced that that is what we do. That’s who we are more than just present. It’s intentionality.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:20:12]:
If people want to find out more about Ohana or about you, where should they go?
Dr. Ryan Senters [00:20:17]:
Yeah. So I have a podcast and I’m actually releasing one on fatherhood and parenthood, foster adoption, season this this fall. It’s called Unleash Your Purpose, and you can look me up orioncenters.com, and ohanaaz.org is our organization.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:20:33]:
Well, Ryan, I just wanna say thank you. Thank you for sharing your story today. Thank you for all that you’re doing to be able to help connect kids with their forever families. And I truly wish you all the best.
Ryan Senters [00:20:45]:
Thank you. Thanks for having me on.
Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:20:46]:
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